Girlfriend gift ideas move up a notch when a relationship begins to feel cozy and comfortable and sort of 'meant to be".
When love was not part of the equation your light-hearted gifts went hand in hand with your light-hearted comittment.
But when you began to let down your defenses both you and your partner began to notice things about one another that weren't obvious when you were hiding your insecurities. When your "real" selves showed up, love was a possibility and real intimacy was a prospect on the horizon.
Trust, integrity and appreciation evolved to make it happen.
Congratulations...you made it this far.
When you start looking for girlfriend gift ideas and the relationship is long term, you don't have to forget the fun and funky and frivolous stuff you used to buy. But, as a general rule, it's finally appropriate to sometimes buy intimate or expensive
gifts that express your deeper appreciation of your partner. Enter clothing (even lingerie), perfume and jewelry.
If this is the first time you've considered buying this kind of stuff, let me give you a heads-up. If you aren't careful you're going to experience a baptism by FIRE! Don't say I didn't warn you.
I wouldn't, but hey, you're the one looking for girlfriend gift ideas. Here's what you have to know to take on the fashion minefield:
Read my suggestion on the right carefully. I don't mean it facetiously. I mean it for real. Even if you don't think you'll ever have the courage to put clothing at the top of your girlfriend gift idea list, this exercise will pay off big time over the years. When you start to see things through her eyes you may eventually be able to recognize the perfect gift when you see it. At the very least you'll know what won't work.
Avoiding being wrong in the area of buying gifts is an EXCELLENT skill to have in case the relationship morphs into marriage sometime down the road. Although it's not well known outside a small circle of movers and shakers in the Catholic hierarchy, mastery of this skill will put you on the road to sainthood.
Despite my dire warnings, you may be cocky enough to try to add to your girlfriend's wardrobe. Check out the advice for fashionable girlfriend gift ideas here.
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